Become an Activist and Don’t Make Me Be the Only One

November 28th, 2005 § 1

Keith Boykin talks to Gay.com about his experience in becoming an activist and how this has caused some problems for him in his desire to represent himself. It’s easy to ignore the world around you and live a hermit life away from the problems of the real world, only concerned with what’s impacting your corner of space, but at the same time any activist will tell you it’s also disarmingly easy to get sucked into being ‘the voice’ for many people. If you’re personable, presentable, goood looking, media-savvy, chatty, intelligent or just eager then you’ll likely get volunteered to be the mouthpiece for yourself and your friends.

I’m not an activist at the moment, because I don’t know yet what exactly I care enough about to campaign for. I don’t know where my efforts would best be focused. When I find out though, when I come to some epiphanic conclusion, you can be sure I’ll be out there fighting, just don’t assume that’s the only thing I care about. What I care about is as varied as the people on the street, the books in the library and the autumn leaves blowing across my feet. Activism is only fun when you’ve got others to share the experience with, to laugh at the highs and mellow in the lows. If you care about as many things as I do, if you care at all, think about who you’d like to campaign for; we all should have a cause.

I have no regrets about my experiences, but I’m eager to find new leaders who can learn from their own experience. In recent years, I’ve spoken to LGBT high school students, recruited talented college activists to join the board of the National Black Justice Coalition and opened my Web site to new expressions from young columnists. But the more I did, the harder it was to get others involved.

Unwittingly, I had become an obstacle to my own recruitment plans. The more visible I became, the more difficult it was for others to become visible. Whenever I suggested that others should speak, I continued to be called on to speak instead. So last month, I decided to take a stand. I shut up. After the Millions More March, I got calls from CBS News, Essence Magazine, the Boston Globe, The Advocate, National Public Radio, Air America Radio and numerous other media outlets looking for a comment, and I told them all the same thing: Talk to someone else, please. I don’t want to be pigeonholed solely as black and gay. I’m proud of who I am, but I’m more than the sum of my identities.

Gay.com: Developing the next Rosa Parks

UPDATE:

This reminds me of an article I read earlier in the year, from the Seattle PI, where one of their columnists bemoans the lack of representation and public concern for gay rights legislation in Washington State. In a State that’s perceived as one of the most liberal, West-Coast hippy places in the country, the Democrat led legislature and executive can’t put through any legislation protection citizens from discrimination on the grounds of sexual orientation. Why? Because people in the state don’t think it’s an issue to get worked up about. People are so apathetic or so accepting that they don’t think of gay rights as something that needs fighting for; it’s already there. But because there’s a lack of profile for the issue and pressure on the politicians, elected officials are able to shirk off their responsibilities to their constituents.
This is why we need activists: someone needs to shepherd every cause along. Issues don’t come to prominence by themselves, there needs to be push, profile building and argument to get those who don’t care to at least understand.

The Democrats rule the House. Democrats control the Senate by a slim margin. They have even got their candidate, Christine Gregoire, in the governor’s mansion.

Yet despite this, two conservative Democrats in the Senate joined Republicans last week to derail a civil rights bill that would prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation. …There’s [a] disturbing wrinkle arising from last week’s vote: apathy from the mainstream. People did voice anger on Capitol Hill, but that’s to be expected from a Seattle neighborhood that is the heart of the region’s gay community.

Just as bad is the deafening silence about the bill’s fate from quarters that should know better. Civil rights groups such as the ACLU, the NAACP and Equal Rights Washington are familiar with the pain of injustice. These organizations have mewled instead of roared — if they have said anything at all.
The quiet is unnerving.

Seattle PI: Robert L. Jamieson Jr: Who will stand up for gay rights? Anyone?

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12 Reasons That Gay Marriage Will Ruin Society

April 3rd, 2005 § 2

I know this is old (it was originally posted over a year ago), but I just came across it today and I think it’s fun. I think the gay marriage debate is no less big news right now than it was or will be in the next few months. Today I read a report about how Gay Marriage was debated before the Washington State Supreme Court about two weeks ago and it’s not clear which way the court is leaning. If things are cleared up, in the right way, then the legacy of Gay Marriage debates will fester and carry on just like the abortion debate has done since Roe vs Wade. And so I give you the dry humor alternative:
12 reasons same-sex marriage will ruin society:

  1. homosexuality is not natural, much like eyeglasses, polyester, and birth control are not natural.
  2. heterosexual marriages are valid because they produce children. infertile couples and old people cannot get legally married because the world needs more children.
  3. obviously gay parents will raise gay children because straight parents only raise straight children.
  4. straight marriage will be less meaningful, since britney spears’s 55-hour just-for-fun marriage was meaningful.
  5. heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and it hasn’t changed at all: women are property, blacks can’t marry whites, and divorce is illegal.
  6. gay marriage should be decided by the people, not the courts, because the majority-elected legislatures, not courts, have historically protected the rights of minorities.
  7. gay marriage is not supported by religion. in a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are always imposed on the entire country. that’s why we only have one religion in america.
  8. gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people makes you tall.
  9. legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. people may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage license.
  10. children can never succeed without both male and female role models at home. that’s why single parents are forbidden to raise children.
  11. gay marriage will change the foundation of society. heterosexual marriage has been around for a long time, and we could never adapt to new social norms because we haven’t adapted to cars or longer lifespans.
  12. civil unions, providing most of the same benefits as marriage with a different name are better, because a “separate but equal” institution is always constitutional. separate schools for african-americans worked just as well as separate marriages will for gays & lesbians.
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Can She Ever Stop?

November 8th, 2004 § 0

We hang out, we mess around, we play-fight, we swear, we do domestic duties. My friend and I have been hanging out the last couple days and just doing the normal weekend kind of thing. She’s a girl, I’m a gay boy… what can I say – it’s a natural synergy.

There’s a snag. I’m in a hall, staying in large building where I have to live with a lot of straight guys. Straight girls really don’t mind a fag in their midst – it’s just one more person to advise them on what to wear to the club tonight. Straight boys however feel threatened. So when we’re watching the Lord of the Rings and we see Merry and Pippin hugging on screen, it’s not really that great for me when she declares to the room, “Oh my god, they’re almost as gay as Patrick!”

Really, it just isn’t funny.

I don’t want to have to tell her to cut it, but to be honest, she doesn’t get it. Being a boy means that you have to pay unbelievably close attention to the moods of those around, even if you pretend to not be aware, and this is where most attempted tom-boys fall down; they don’t watch. When the guys wriggle and squirm at the thought that there’s a boy who does other boys sitting next to them, she doesn’t stop talking but just laughs louder. I smile and don’t say anything because what can I say, she’s a friend but she’s not helping me. That is not friendly.

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